Unwanted?

[wingedwolf-2004.livejournal.com]

Hello all,

I have had something weird happen to me today. Firstly, there are 6 members of this system all together. We have had others come and go, but not for a few years. Today I was just on the internet and I felt an enormous feeling come over me, and then was introducing myself as 'Kisuke' to someone online.

Ever since, this Kisuke has been overpowering me, offending people I love and making me feel uneasy. I don't want him here, and want him gone, he is hurting me. Does anyone know how to deal with this kind of thing?

~ Sam

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[inmonopolus.livejournal.com]

Hello!

I've been lurking at this community for some months now--you only get to make a first impression once, after all, but you all seem like really great people, so I figured I might as well.

A little bit about me, personally; my name is Theo, or Theory. (Well, my birth name is Amber, but hardly any of my friends call me that). I'm a nineteen year old, and I identify as Soulbonder/Median, in that this body is mine; I was born into it and no one else considers it 'theirs', even when they front. Also, I experience no lost time or disassociation, and most of my soulbonds (collectively, the Coterie) can be readily identified from media sources. We are, however, at least partially a trauma-connected system, but nobody here is explicitly destructive, and 99% of them can work together and resolve conflicts peaceably. Nor are we attending therapy, though we probably should be, if only to have someone to confide in about said trauma. I won't bore you guys with that here, though, no worries. <3

The whole list--with far more detail than you might care to know--is in our userinfo, but a short introduction would include Griffin (of The Invisible Man fame), Dracula (predominantly of Van Helsing fame, not Bram Stoker's), Van Helsing himself, Renfield, Vex, Q (Star Trek), the Fool (of Robin Hobb's Farseer Trilogy), Malone, Quackerjack, Nicholas Angel, and an insource, Sam, as well as myself.

And since I've got the window open, I might as well ask a quick question of you guys, open-ended, of course. How many of you match, gender-wise, the body you affiliate yourselves with? I ask mostly because I'm female, with some exceptional gender confusion of my own, and yet the Coterie is composed entirely of "masculine" persons (even the two who identify androgynous and hermaphroditic tend towards presenting--to me, at least--a masculine sense.) I'm curious. If it's too intrusive a question, of course, please tell me so.

Anyway, so! Happy to be here.

~Theo

Question about friends and fronting.

[derestissilence.livejournal.com]

So first off, we decided on a name for our system- Silent House. So now that that's out of the way, I get to ask my question.

Have any of you ever had someone demand that a certain personality front around them? I was just hanging out front here with Luxord (Erik's gettin' kinda pissy, too, which means he'll probably front later), and D's friend demanded that She front. I was gonna take a message, if it was important, but no, this friend had to have D. So I dragged her out of the back where she was takin' a break, since she fronts the most, poor kid. She's the original personality and the body's age, and she just doesn't want to deal with things right now.

What do you do when someone pulls something like this? We can be accomodating, but damnit I really wanna punch someone's lights out now.

-- Xigbar, Silent House

PS. The Elves are demanding icons now. Wonderful.

Emergency

[wingedwolf-2004.livejournal.com]

Hello again, this is Toby of the Raven System.

We posted not long ago about a new system member - http://community.livejournal.com/multiplicity/742749.html

Well, we have had further trouble from him, and we are frightened for our/the bodies lives. Please we really, reallt need some advice and help!

We are looking to talk to someone on msn asap to please help us!

roxiehusky@gmail.com