Emergency

[wingedwolf-2004.livejournal.com]

Hello again, this is Toby of the Raven System.

We posted not long ago about a new system member - http://community.livejournal.com/multiplicity/742749.html

Well, we have had further trouble from him, and we are frightened for our/the bodies lives. Please we really, reallt need some advice and help!

We are looking to talk to someone on msn asap to please help us!

roxiehusky@gmail.com

Comments

[padawanagain.livejournal.com]

I am sorry that y'all are having such a hard time but a livejournal community may not be the best place for this.

[fairly.livejournal.com]

THANK YOU. :) I agree.

- Kerry
Fen Group

[paladin1701.livejournal.com]

Here's what I'll say: I don't believe that someone has to get therapy just because they live plural.

However, I very much believe that the process of reconciling group members who have a tough time with life and rules with the rest of the group. So I would say that this VERY MUCH falls under the rubric of get professional help. I don't know what your situation is in terms of age and financial situation, but if you're at the point where this new member is attacking system mates, family members and even threatening the body, then it's time.

So here are some options: If you're in college, look up the phone number to Student Counselling Services on your school's website and call them--it'll be free, and the people who work there are trained just as well as the people who cost a lot.

If you're not in college, but over 18 biologically, then go through the phone book and find some counselling close to you: the magic words are "Sliding-scale fee". That means that the fee is dependent on how much money you make, so they'll work with you in terms of what sessions will cost (and the first session is almost always going to be a free consultation session).

Finally, if you're under 18 biologically then we run into some other problems, namely that you may have to come out to your family which can be hard. However, if you're at a point where someone is threatening system members, the body, and family members, then it's time to get some help.

Tough decisions, all of them. But again--you've got to weigh the danger to yourself versus the comfort of things being as they were before. I would err on the side of safety every time. I hope this helps.

[wingedwolf-2004.livejournal.com]

Everythings worked out now, and found, due to the arrival of a soulbond. Thankyou all for your help!

~ Edward