new here, and an image...

[debellum.livejournal.com]

Hello all, my name is Salem, and I am very much stuck alone in my own head. (there's crickets sometimes, but only really just myself.)

My beloved bride, whom I wed in a mere 3 months from now, (blackwing_angel) exsists in a system, and I thought being here might help me understand that and learn to cope with her metaphysical quirks, since she's taking the time to adapt to my own.

I was readign through some psots beforeI joined, and saw someone mention a multiples system symbol, like the TG symbol or the gay rainbow.

Neat idea, might give the community a bit more national unity and recognition if it became widespread. Or, ya know, just look cool. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v513/only_for_him/MultiplesEye.jpg submitted for your perusal. My skills at art are slim in this area, so if it's liked and someone else wnats to redo it better, please, go right ahead and do so.

Comments

[debellum.livejournal.com]

Well, to be honest, while I like some of the others, my wife is more important, because, she's my wife. I'm not passionately in love with the 4 year old, but I am with my wife. She's the predominant, and the owner of the body, and my wife. I dunno if this is bad multiples manners, but my wife will always be the most important.

[pengke.livejournal.com]

She can be the most important to you but that doesn't mean she's the most important. Just because she's the one you see the most doesn't mean that the others are secondary citizens in their own body. They're just as real as she is. Their existance isn't dependant on her. Nor does she own the body. The body belongs to all of them, just like their life does.

[debellum.livejournal.com]

well yes, she's the msot important to me, but frankly, I'm not concerned with who's most important to the dog or the mailman or her grandmother. I'm the one I have to worry about msot, as I'm, well, me. The others aren't second class, but they concern me less. they take her away from me from time to time, they stress her out, and on occasion, have threatened harm to her. I don't care who or what something is, I don't like things that pose danger to my wife.