question

[tvoytoy.livejournal.com]

hi,there.
i'm jane.
i have a question for nontrauma-based system-members.
so, how did you realized you are multiple? have you heared some voices one day or something else?
remember please you first "meeting".
and happy new year for everybody.
to tell you the truth -i feel the unspeakable tenderness while reading this community.it's like being your common mom=)

Comments

[yellowsub723.livejournal.com]

We always felt very contradictory and fragmented but were very shut down. What helped us all start to come out and get along was this idea that we were just doing 'parts therapy' or 'internal family system work'--as if it was just a means to some kind healing end. But very quickly as we allowed parts to speak for themselves, I heard things I never would have expected and didn't know about. It explained alot in my past in that people would always experience me as very eccentric and multi-faceted. Now there's just more organization. Very quickly in therapy it became clear that we were not a person 'doing parts work' but 'a person with parts' which was very, very difficult to accept at first.