Question

[terendel.livejournal.com]

Okay, hope this doesn't sound too weird. My mindmate and I would like to formalize our relationship in some way, and I've asked her to handfast me. (Is that even a verb?) I know that some of you have in-system marriages. Did you manage to come up with a ritual that involved people outside the system? We have some singlet friends, and we'd like to involve them in some way, but I can't come up with anything good. Of course I'm even feeling weird about telling them, but I think that's just me. I've been "underground" so to speak for so long that it's still weird for me to even interact with others. Much less trying to explain how an in-system relationship would work.

Sorry if I've started to babble. This whole thing is making me nervous.

Comments

[tej-agni.livejournal.com]

That is what happened here. We've had various individuals who have visited us and left for several years. Their home is elsewhere, not within our Realm. We didn't have a middle world though. When they first began to visit, they were outside of this body and would communicate with out separate from our body. Then a few would visit within the Realm. Rayne is the first who actually decided to live within our Realm from the clans that visit. There is another who visited so often that he was practically part of our group, but his visits have lessened the past few months. There are quite a few personal connections still with the visiting clans, but I'm the first who actually married into their clan. :)

What is a middle world? Is that similar to a mutual shared space?

Amalah

[ksol1460.livejournal.com]

The middle world is what we termed a more earthlike subjective environment which has connections both to the earth world and Laura. The actual KSOL1460 radio station is in Solace, a town in the middle world.

[tej-agni.livejournal.com]

Ah. Areas of Eressea around the Mansion would be similar to that, except it isn't a pocket area. It blends in smoothly with everywhere else.

[ksol1460.livejournal.com]

That sounds also something like the places on Earth where you can stand and be both on Earth and Laura simultaneously.