Others Disappearing Without Saying Goodbye

[lgrau.livejournal.com]

Hey. I'm posting this for someone who feels strange being around communities like this; hope that's not a problem.

She's had two others - one who was around for thirteen years, one for almost seven. Suddenly, they both disappeared without either of them telling her. The only major change in her lifestyle was getting a boyfriend, and even then they hung around for three months into the relationship. After that, they were just... poof. Gone.

She's seen one of them two times, but only to scold her; the other one she hasn't seen since. She's looking for suggestions to get them to talk to her, or anything along those lines.

(I also directed her to the memories, but I figure that new people in the community bring about new thoughts on the subject. Sorry for the repetition, as this general subject HAS been posted about a few times already.)

Comments

[ricktboy.livejournal.com]

first, I'd do some introspection. I went through that, accompanied by this feeling of "so I MUST have been crazy." I realized a long time later, I'd built a wall. subconsciously, but regardless, I had. Thankfully my packmates have forgiven me for locking them away, but the point is, do some serious introspection, she may have built a wall without realizing it.

Sometimes, in our experience, a change can make you 'forget' that others are there. in forgetting, the wall gets built. it separates y'all.

(we're not in a wonderful frame of mind atm, but if you/she needs clarification, or wanna go along this train of thought further, give us a holler...there's loads of contact info on my lj user info page).

Rick
Pack Collective