random question

[sethrenn.livejournal.com]

The thread on relationships further down sparked a curiosity, and now we're wondering. What are other people's takes on in-system relationships (that is, two-- or more-- people in the same system having a relationship)? After struggling through years of feeling that it was 'lame' and something we did just because we were 'losers,' lately we've just been letting it happen naturally if people are so inclined, and some of us, for what it's worth, have better relationships with other people in-system than we ever have with people outside of it.

Unfortunately, we've heard of other multiples who admitted to having such relationships getting nasty flack for it, being told they were just 'fantasizing.' Dunno about that... if we're all just people sharing the same body, what would be wrong or 'not real' about two of those people having a relationship with each other?

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woo!

[kaleidescope.livejournal.com]

i think intra-system relationships rule. and on the multiple list we're on lots of people date or fuck within their system, so there :-)