She said No she said, they said

[jadedmosaic.livejournal.com]

We are having the weirdest experience with a outside friend of Tieas.
She'll often start a quetion with Tiea with "So where do YOU want to go"? Tiea will typicaly wait a second or two and listen to us to see if we have a special place in mindwere all rooting for and answer the friend.
Allot of times the friend will say "we' disagreed and "came out and said something differnt", if its not a place the friend wants to go to, or like a movieshe wants to see, the friend will blame it on "us " and say "well all your little people couldet decide so were not going anywhere" If she's driving.

Or Tiea will end up some place she did not want to be and the frind will say "So and so said No" This is so NOT true and Tiea is catching on . We first off dont like being called "the little people" But to end up at a movie or club none of us wanted to go to and have it blamed on s is bothersome.

Has anyone had something like this happen? Were not sure weather one of us should say something( seperatly) to her(the friend)or wait for Tiea to say "No I was here and nobody switched at all" I dont think I'm explaining this well. But this outside friend will blame "us " "the little people inside "She even has called us "the munckins" Tiea just hung up the phone on her .
Peace Shelby

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[jadedmosaic.livejournal.com]

Your probly right Tiea's old therapist used to insist we have a tracer but we've never heard any one claim it. I personally just really want this women to know "We " know what she is doing and Tiea is not stupid. Even if Tiea is thinking it over way too long .

See we have lots of friends but shes the only one were totally open with and to know she is using that against us sucks. I think I'm going to say something tomorrow when she calls.

Everyone says I have moxy for my age. Sounds old fashioned thing to have to me but I think there giving me a compliment ha Thx Elaine Sheblby says thanks your right we should just tell Tiea or talk to the friend "ourselves"

[ksol1460.livejournal.com]

Nothin' wrong with moxie -- it means energy, kick-ass.

Even if you don't have a tracer or a common memory pool or narrative thread, we have always believed that it is possible for groups who don't have one to create one. Not sure how one would go about doing that but maybe one of the groups on this community who has done it could explain it.

As far as your "friend", level with her, tell her you don't like being gaslighted. She talks as if she doesn't believe anybody's real but Tiea. She must take your word for it as far as Tiea being able to give an honest answer after polling the group, and that she is not blacking out. If she can't handle you being plural, she is not worth your&'s while. You& don't need friends who take advantage of you& in that fashion.

[jadedmosaic.livejournal.com]

Were going to listen to Tiea talk to her today. We think because this women is a MHP Nurse where we used to work, she tries extra hard to be excepring of Tiea but she humors us, but trust me we are not "little people" or "munchkins" either so it is kinda condensending.

If Tiea starts doupting us or her own memory we are going to step in "ourselves" and say "hey whoo, we know we did not want to go to see that movie, you did, and nobody spoke aloud to you but Tiea and Tiea made that clear." Sounds stupid I know . But we do a movie once a month and we were saving our Money for "Walk The Line " Movies are expensive and were too old for the club this women likes to frequent.

With all the noise in our heads and the noise in the clubs its enough to go whacky not a place a multiple with "Kick ass moxey" even wants to be. Goives me a headache and makes me dizzy . Were more for a book or poetry reading or Kereoki.

Yeah were going to listen in today since we have to go to work half day and clean out our desk , were moving to another floor. hmmm I'm glad they think of me as energetic thats cool. Thx Elaine, I'll let Shelby read posts later

[eridanusus.livejournal.com]

Let's hear it for moxie!!!