there talkin Snow

[jadedmosaic.livejournal.com]

 Yep its Rochester , there talkin snow tonight a perfect end to a perfect day. hey all Shelby here . Hi

 

We spent the whole night and day arguing with Elaine as usual about her wanting to be a free bird and fly West  to go to School , only to come home to a freezing House  and a prediction of Snow .  We sent the brat to her room . She is driving all of us nuts talking about living somewhere else .We dont want to make the cardinal mistake and say " If you dont like the rules here you could leave" Cause this kid she will. She would leave without blinking a eye .

 

Tiea is real sick still and it turns out I fought with Elaine all day. She kept Punching me in the gut to ,move to  the side , Knocking the wind out of me and taking my time to prove her point . It proved she does not do it well.  Shes 16 going on 30 I swear .  Now she can prove it in her room . With no visits from the other teens . I swear there is always one . She gets all the teens rieled up all the time with HER civil rights and living in a fake democrocy . Right now I have a huge hedache and am feeling Tiea's fever and aches . Its going to take a week or so to get this med out of our system and I think worse getting off it .

Thank God it was Monday . Too busy for the T to get on our nerves . We see him tomorrow  Elaine hitchhicked a ride to work with us , where she did not belong . If the t finds out he'll go balistic . It was so much easier when she was 7 years old .

I do understand her but we cannot just pick up and move . We told her we would take her to see some campuses for a two year program .

She is the most seperate person from us all . She has never got the concept she lives in a body with others . This is because she sees us all differnt on the inside . Sorry if she is trying to start a commotion with others system teens . She is a born leader and she tends to inspire others in her mischief .  I wish we could let her do what she wants . Speaking of bodies my body is killing me . We cant believe there calling for snow already .With Elaine if were not careful we could end up on a plane or a train or a bus . Sorry she s been ranting online . She tried to delete it but we found it she was up all night last night and she does not get how that effects us.  Long Day . Hope you all had a good one

 Peace to you all,  well its dinner time  Catch ya all later Sorry about Elaine  Peace Shelby

Comments

thanks for talking to her

[jadedmosaic.livejournal.com]

Hi ,

Thanks so much for talking some sense to her. She tends to get a complex like we all think she is bad. This is not it at all . Also we do not see her as just as babysitter

We are sorry about what happened with My botfriend. This is when her problems started . Tiea and I were seeing a singlet who without us catching on would wait till we fell a sleep and call on the younger girls to come to him . We had to break up with him cause he did not get that these were seperate kids he was sexualizing .

She's taken allot of her anger out on us for not protecting her .

Back to College Jade and I are looking into online courses for Holistic Medicine with My credits applied , if this is what she really wants .

I understand her wanting the College experience , without us adults . We love Elaine but she is a study in frustration to us ...It always goes back to " You let that pervert do things to me " We would let her talk to the T but we are thinking of getting a new T so now isnt a good time for her to flip out on us again, all we can say is " were so sorry we did not protect you and break up with him right away ".

Thnaks for making her see reality a little .. Oh were sure she is plotting her next get away. She has a strong spirit . For now she isnt speaking to us . The air is thick here . But were just being adults."Tough Love" I guess ,Peace Shelby & Jade

Re: thanks for talking to her

[shatterstorm.livejournal.com]

> She's taken allot of her anger out on us for not protecting her .

We decided to let all the kids know they could choose one or more adults in our group to call on to handle any situation where they felt overwhelmed or frightened. We have "practiced" with the kids and encouraged them so they feel comfortable calling up their protectors.

The past doesn't change. We have a say in the future.