I'm Sure This Has Been Asked Before

[adreamerforme.livejournal.com]

How do you manage having different sexualities in a system?

(We write these posts in third person only to avoid confusion.....)

We have almost a full range in our group, a Straight woman (Lala), a bi-curious lesbian (Anam) (she claims lesbian most of the time, but we know better), and a lesbian (Sadeyl). We also have different sexual interests. Lala and Anam are interested in BDSM in different degrees, but Sadeyl detests the idea (she believes partners should be equal in sexual activities as well as life activities, and she hates pain).

This is what we're struggling with right now because we all wish to front and we all wish to have lives that suit us. We're trying to figure out how to give everyone what they want in some way without bothering others in the group.

Any ideas, suggestions, or stories how you worked out issues like this.... are most appreciated.

THANKS!

Anamyse

A Couple Things

[mylittlebox.livejournal.com]

A few things:

• We were not here yesterday, after the post by Auroch. He made that post and left the house, as far as I can tell.

• When we DID get back, which is a story in and of itself (around 3 pm today), we both read most of the 110 or so comments. Auroch has his share of things to say, and so do I. Neither are really very much related.

• I will separate both into their own respective sections. Auroch is NOT fronting at the moment, and was kind enough to agree to quietly sit back and dictate so I can remain in front and type. I actually think he might have worn himself out somehow yesterday. I really don't want to know doing what.

( Auroch's Response )

( My Response )

nanowrimo

[ikeru.livejournal.com]

i thought there should be a (shiny) NEW POST at the top of the community page hello! is anyone here doing nanowrimo this year, and are you having any reference to multiplicity in it? we are doing nanowrimo but this year the plot does not have anything to do with multiplicity (last year's did). in fact i am stalling the writing of the novel by posting here (aite).

Introduction?

[bound-innle.livejournal.com]

Heh heh heh. I'm Jane, the "original" here. At least, I'd like to think I am. My memories with this body go back about fourteen years (AKA three years old and trauma involving a car accident on my father's part), so I assume I was the first occupant.

And I'm Lyserg Diethel, yes, that Lyserg Diethel. I'd thought I'd had enough of spooky woowoo mysticcrap, and then last winter I heard a cry for help, answered it, and... well, I'm here now. Let's not question it.

Hi Dad, if you're reading this. Um. That wasn't directed towards Mana, if there's a him here I'll be frankly kinda scared. My name's Allen Walker, pleased to meet you!

We're not quite sure what to call how we work, and so have joined here in hopes of meeting more people and finding out more about this sort of thing. And, ah, if an intro like this is frowned upon, we can delete it! [Edit: That to the immediate left? Was written out of mortal fear that a mod would show up and be all "RAAAAGH YOU BROKE A RULE" at her. We en't deleting anything, don't worry.]