[identity profile] deathwish13.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] multiplicity_archives
Hi Everyone.

My name is Ophelia. i am a multiple, although i am unsure as to exactly how many there are or all of there names. i know i switch and different people come out. sometimes i am aware of this (like being in the passenger's seat) and sometimes i am unaware until someone else tells me. i basically have a situation that happened and i am really unsure how to deal with it. i thought maybe you could be of help. i was recently having an intimate experiece with my boyfriend when i freaked out and switched. i did not really remember what happened, but the next morning i woke up and everyone was in shambles. from what i gather, my boyfriend who stopped having sex with me when i flipped out, was complaining to autopilot (who he knew was out) that he was horny. autopilot said that they would get a girl for him that didn't care about being fucked because everythign bad happened to her anyway. well, i think AP got this girl out and he had sex with her. now, i don't know the age of this girl. maybe AP and this girl were testing him to see if he could be trusted... at any rate, should i ask the boyfriend about this? i am not even entirely sure if this is how it happened. should i be mad at him if this is how it happened? The whole thing is just kinda crazy and makes me wonder what we were doing....sorry if i sound crazy. please don't call me nuts!!!

Ophelia

Date: 2004-12-15 04:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] idianshire.livejournal.com
What "rules" your system sets up for a relationship is up to your system to decide. The thing about that is it will take being able to communicate and reach a consesus. It might even have to happen with every relationship you get into in the future. We have had relationships where it was basically the person dating us all (well all adult and sexually active people) so basically anyone could agree to sex with that person. In other relationships it was more one or two of us, and if the other person had sex with anyone other than those people it would be considered cheating. But the thing was that was for us to decide and enforce. Although he was pretty good at pickign a few of us it would have been easy to fool him. We had to realise we were responsible, that we had to be responsible for our actions.

Date: 2004-12-15 04:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] idianshire.livejournal.com
Oh replying to myself, I don;t think I have written this much on this forum before. And I think this touched onto a bit of bitterness on my part. Now for the record I am not implying anyone here is actually doing this. I just get annoyed at multiplicity being used as the victim, get out of jail free card. They know I am multiple they should have known. It's not my fault how can I be expected to be responsible..I'm multiple. So it's a sore spot for me, hence why the flurry of posts.

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