smoothness of switching
Feb. 28th, 2004 11:40 amHey all,
I've been skimming this journal (and I think I've pitched my 2 cents in a few times) for a while now, and one of the things I've noticed is that it seems that the transition between people is a sharp sorta thing. I have times when my head swims and I close my eyes and when the open again someone else is fronting, but I also have smoother transitions. I'm thinking of a specific situation that has a sexual context, so I'll stick it behind a cut .
I have a "willd" person - she's dominant and flirty and totally flaunts her bisexual try anything "I can and will fuck anyone I want" attitude. The rest of us usually restrict her fronting to times when she's alone with a lover or in a totally new place - as her dominant attitude also conveys a "don't fuck with me - cuz I'll smash your world as easily as I'll rock it" impression too. However, if she's in front during sex and our lover objects to her dominance, she'll get coy and flirty and grab someone else - either one of our subs or one of our more vanilla people, depending on what she thinks the lover will like best - and tries to mimic their personality so the transition is "smooth" and looks just like it's one person "changing roles". We tell people we're a "switch" - although they don't usually realize just how true that is! : D
This isn't the only time it occurs - it just tends to be the time we seem most aware of it occurring. I was wondering if anyone else experiences these "smooth shifts" too.
I've been skimming this journal (and I think I've pitched my 2 cents in a few times) for a while now, and one of the things I've noticed is that it seems that the transition between people is a sharp sorta thing. I have times when my head swims and I close my eyes and when the open again someone else is fronting, but I also have smoother transitions. I'm thinking of a specific situation that has a sexual context, so I'll stick it behind a cut .
I have a "willd" person - she's dominant and flirty and totally flaunts her bisexual try anything "I can and will fuck anyone I want" attitude. The rest of us usually restrict her fronting to times when she's alone with a lover or in a totally new place - as her dominant attitude also conveys a "don't fuck with me - cuz I'll smash your world as easily as I'll rock it" impression too. However, if she's in front during sex and our lover objects to her dominance, she'll get coy and flirty and grab someone else - either one of our subs or one of our more vanilla people, depending on what she thinks the lover will like best - and tries to mimic their personality so the transition is "smooth" and looks just like it's one person "changing roles". We tell people we're a "switch" - although they don't usually realize just how true that is! : D
This isn't the only time it occurs - it just tends to be the time we seem most aware of it occurring. I was wondering if anyone else experiences these "smooth shifts" too.