Intro

[weare.livejournal.com]

*sorry about the cross post...I joined three communities at the same time :)*

Hello, my name is Jessica though most of my friends call me Jessie. I found out I was multiple about a year ago...though it turns out that some friends and family (the few I have felt comfortable enough to speak to about it) have known for years! They never said anything because they thought I knew. *sigh*

Anyways, a lot has changed in the past year. And, after much debate (with my others and my husband and myself) I realize that it's time I stopped being afraid of my others and embrace them. No, I don't mean integration (I don't feel that would be best for us...neither do they) but rather becoming a healthy system. Basically, the thought is that if I allow my others to come out and do things that They like then maybe I won't lose time so much and my life will become a little more stable.

Well, to keep a long story from taking up too much space on your friends pages....

I found this group and two others and decided that if I'm truly going to help myself and my others than talking with and reading about people who understand would be helpful to me. I started this particular journal (weare) as a form of self-therapy and sometimes my others will come out and say some things. They're usually good about signing their name though sometimes they forget (and so do I).

Ok...I should go now. I've rambled on enough. hehe Thanks for listening. :)

Comments

[myorp.livejournal.com]

hi! welcome! i'm my of the puzzles and clocks system. glad to meet you. we've been getting the hang of being multiple for a while but its still confusing sometimes. i think everyone probably progresses through their understanding of that just like any other aspect of themselves.

i think there's always room for anyone to grow so don't feel like you don't have something worthwhile to add if you have a personal insight of some sort.

just because you're new to all of this doesn't mean what you have to say is any less valid. it may be something others already know but everyone must grow and such at their own rate. so don't feel intimidated if alot of people here seem to be alot more knowlegable or experienced.

[weare.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much for the warm welcome. :) Everyone here is so nice.