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*sorry about the cross post...I joined three communities at the same time :)*
Hello, my name is Jessica though most of my friends call me Jessie. I found out I was multiple about a year ago...though it turns out that some friends and family (the few I have felt comfortable enough to speak to about it) have known for years! They never said anything because they thought I knew. *sigh*
Anyways, a lot has changed in the past year. And, after much debate (with my others and my husband and myself) I realize that it's time I stopped being afraid of my others and embrace them. No, I don't mean integration (I don't feel that would be best for us...neither do they) but rather becoming a healthy system. Basically, the thought is that if I allow my others to come out and do things that They like then maybe I won't lose time so much and my life will become a little more stable.
Well, to keep a long story from taking up too much space on your friends pages....
I found this group and two others and decided that if I'm truly going to help myself and my others than talking with and reading about people who understand would be helpful to me. I started this particular journal (weare) as a form of self-therapy and sometimes my others will come out and say some things. They're usually good about signing their name though sometimes they forget (and so do I).
Ok...I should go now. I've rambled on enough. hehe Thanks for listening. :)
Hello, my name is Jessica though most of my friends call me Jessie. I found out I was multiple about a year ago...though it turns out that some friends and family (the few I have felt comfortable enough to speak to about it) have known for years! They never said anything because they thought I knew. *sigh*
Anyways, a lot has changed in the past year. And, after much debate (with my others and my husband and myself) I realize that it's time I stopped being afraid of my others and embrace them. No, I don't mean integration (I don't feel that would be best for us...neither do they) but rather becoming a healthy system. Basically, the thought is that if I allow my others to come out and do things that They like then maybe I won't lose time so much and my life will become a little more stable.
Well, to keep a long story from taking up too much space on your friends pages....
I found this group and two others and decided that if I'm truly going to help myself and my others than talking with and reading about people who understand would be helpful to me. I started this particular journal (weare) as a form of self-therapy and sometimes my others will come out and say some things. They're usually good about signing their name though sometimes they forget (and so do I).
Ok...I should go now. I've rambled on enough. hehe Thanks for listening. :)
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Date: 2004-01-15 12:42 pm (UTC)I know it's going to be hard but it feels like the right thing to do. :)
VASES sounds awesome! Is it an e-group or something? Do you have a webaddress?
~Jessie
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Date: 2004-01-19 03:03 am (UTC)Hi Jessie ^_^
I think you will do just fine you have the right attitude towards the people with you and that is really good.
Oh here is the web sight for VASES - www.homepagez.com/vasesuk/ and also here is the person who runs it address you can email her if you like she is really very nice vasesnguk@whsmithnet.co.uk you can tell her I tolled you about it.
Hope you are well.
Josh
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Date: 2004-01-19 08:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-01-19 04:08 pm (UTC)I do apologise if I repeated the letter I sent you. I had a problem and thought I did not get this too you but then I sort of remembered that you did write back.
I do seem to forget things ^_^
Josh
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Date: 2004-01-20 07:33 am (UTC)Don't worry hon. I tend to forget things too. Kinda seems to come along with the territory. lol