[identity profile] bowlcutavenger.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] multiplicity_archives

Ok.  Someone please tell me if this makes sence (if it doesnt bludgen me with a herring)

Apparently, one of the lesser personalites has split into two distinct people.  
This is why it sucks:  The personality was known to us only as The Entertainer.  He was distinct for an aire he had of, as his name suggests, putting on a good show for people.  Now there are two in his place: one who is always hyperactive and the other who is... well, a total spaz.  I can't meet new people in public now because the spastic one always takes over.  I was never this bad with people! 
If anyone has advice, I'd appreciate that so much.
freddrageous.

Date: 2007-08-02 04:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tej-agni.livejournal.com
glances around for a herring. just kidding! ♥ I don't know. LiSa in our group makes the body freak out so like she's been grounded from the front but it's been getting better because as long as we eat something before she fronts for a long time then it seems to be not as bad. but I know that's something different but she calls herself a spaz too. lol :p
LeAnne

Date: 2007-08-02 05:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meiiikeee.livejournal.com
I know my herring's around here somewhere...

First it might help to know why the rift occurred. I don't know! But good luck.

(AQUABATS!!!)

Date: 2007-08-02 03:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] paladin1701.livejournal.com
One way you might come at this is to have a big meeting--but that can get boring boring boring. Still, it might help. Just get it all out in the open (how the spazziness is making people not want to be around you, etc.). Maybe someone else inside will have a plan.

Or, and this one may take longer, make sure that the two of them are always hanging out together, and that you still call them both by the original name. That might piss one or the other off for a bit, but maybe they'll start to see that they aren't all that different and they'll get back together. Maybe.

It's iffy either way. Just remember, as always--even when they're difficult, always love your headmates and support them as much as you can (even if they have to be removed from the roster of people that are okay to front, love them and support them always).

Date: 2007-08-02 07:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mysticeden.livejournal.com
squish them together? seriously thought um.. get them to talk and see if they can rejoin.

Why?

Date: 2007-08-04 08:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spookshow-girl.livejournal.com
Out of curiousity, why is that the initial solution? Why not something else? For example: rather than figuring out exactly why the person is a spaz, and looking for constructive outlets for the excess energy he apparently has.

--Me

Re: Why?

Date: 2007-08-05 02:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mysticeden.livejournal.com
don't know, the op would have to answer that.

Date: 2007-08-03 12:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aquilawolf.livejournal.com
How about letting the spastic one front in private? Sounds like he wants to express himself, but maybe in public is not the best place. I have a number of people that love to be out but are not suitable for interacting with the general public or even around other people in general.

Also maybe this is just not so great a time for the Entertainer. Not everyone is always at their best. Did something happen to stress or upset him? Maybe he and the spastic one will become one again naturally.

Ideas:

Date: 2007-08-04 08:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spookshow-girl.livejournal.com
For some reason, I keep having a smartass sounding, but "no rilly" response of: Lower sugar intake and give the guy some fingerpaints.

Not that it's my literal solution to your problem, but rather a jumping off point for your own ideas. Or, since it's him who is the spaz, his own ideas.

--Me

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