anyone know how to STOP being blendy?

[ricktboy.livejournal.com]

we've been blendy all morning, and it's beginning to feel 'udossdkjdfhn vuir (no offense meant, trying to explain the grr feeling)

well, in short, it sucks.

we're gonna like, cry or scream or whatever all at once, and ugh...


no worries if you have no advice, we're just wondering.

we've got tea, food, and nicotine(it's a stress reliever for us)

Pack Collective

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[laura-isaac.livejournal.com]

I'm going to scream and cry too...

Sorry, I have no advice, I'm just having a very bad day and trying to sort my head is making it worse.

[ricktboy.livejournal.com]

*hugs* sorry hon. *offers tea* we're all chatting, wanna come join?

[laura-isaac.livejournal.com]

Yes, please, I'd be grateful - the one person who would understand what I'm going through is asleep.

[ricktboy.livejournal.com]

irc.esper.net, #multiplicity. come on in.

[ricktboy.livejournal.com]

thanks... the funny thing is, what helped snap us out of it a bit today, was that post over in n-f-p. Rick snapped right out and took over, going "oooooh no, this misinformation is NOT happening."

it was rather amusing.

come on over to our channel, we're having a party!

[browncoatrebel.livejournal.com]

Sorry you're feeling crappy. No advice, but leaving you some more tea. Because tea is always good.

--Kate

[ricktboy.livejournal.com]

thanks kate.

[ksol1460.livejournal.com]

When you find out, tell us? :p

Coffee is also a good idea, and we watch the Cubs on Channel 9.

[ricktboy.livejournal.com]

thanks for the advice... we noticed if someone's pulled out, due to some kind of (not neccesarily bad) trigger, it helps untie the knot a bit.

[tej-agni.livejournal.com]

Sometimes I think it's just a natural part of being plural, and that it happens from time to time. It doesn't happen all the time or for everyone, but I've read people mentioning it a lot. I love tea! Hug.

-Butterfly

[fayanora.livejournal.com]

Can't help you, sorry. We're so used to blending together that it's second nature. Half the time we have conversations without paying attention to who's saying what. I can't count how often someone says something and I'm like, "Who said that?" And no one knows.

[phen0type.livejournal.com]

We don't know how to stop being blendy except by pursuing things that only one of us would enjoy, and listening to music that only one of us would enjoy for the most part. We have experienced 'interference', and we dislike it greatly.

I hope that helps.

Best wishes,
Richard

[shadowechoes.livejournal.com]

We go through the same thing a lot, especially with our husband being gone (and therefore the stress and depression related to being without him). Especially since (up until now) our husband is really the only person in offline life that knows about *us* and everything.. so having to constantly "be a singleton" and have no one to be ourselves in front of made us very blendy for awhile and we couldn't snap out of it. Some things we did were finally tell a close friend of ours.. so now we have at least one person that we can be our separate selves in front of. We also try to take time for individuals to pursue their own lives and interests, things that will trigger I guess you could say people being separate - like letting Bones go out hunting, letting Jolie spend the night with her friend at the club, anything that draws particular people out of the fog that's been our system lately.

It does suck - we hope you find a way back to yourselves soon.

[crystalseraph.livejournal.com]

Maybe that's why me and Tahl argue so much... XD