"Comming Out"

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I'm not honest with most people about my multiplicity, but I'm starting to come out. Right now I've been talking to strictly other multiples about it (multiples in my life).

This is something I want to be honest about..... but the problem I'm really having is trying to figure out how we can all be ourselves around people rather than the person people have learned that I am.
That's very difficult for me..... expecialy since the person everyone knows as US isn't who any of us are. What's more, we all have different preferences on everything.

I'm bisexual (leaning towards lesbian), I don't eat meat and I can't stand candy. I'm a little frustraited, but slightly boisterous.
Lala's straight and really prefers to kinda live on candy and soda, but she also eats meat. She doesn't say much but she's pretty cynical.
Sadeyl.... I really don't know if she even has a sexuality. She's a sweet, shy, artistic little vegan.

We're all very different, even though we have our similarities (duh, right?)...... and it's hard for us to be ourselves around the group of people we know because the change between us can be so drastic. We really don't know much of what to do.


I guess I just want advice about being able to be real and honest about this.... not having to hide it but still not freaking people out.
We don't want to hide it anymore --- this is too much part of me/us...... but I don't people to freak out, worry, or beleive that we're lying (or crazy).

I'm just a little confused.

Anamyse / X-posted

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We're actualy all looking forwards to it. Sadeyl doesn't much mind playing the part of someone else (I think that's because she's generaly shy to begin with), but Anamyse and I are getting sick and tired of it.
We'd like to not have to pull off being different people than who we are.... because we all have very different perferences and personalities.

Me, personaly. I'm so rather.... erm ANNOYED.... that even Anamyse - the main fronter - is putting on an act (the way we act outside is reasonably much different then how we all are inside). As well, I don't front much anymore BECAUSE I have to play a part.... but I rather like the experience of fronting.

Much of what we show outside is, as you say, fabricated..... and it's just getting kind of emotionaly/mentaly bothersome/stressful on us as well as the body (I think it's the chemicals the brain gives off while reading out emotions of being stressed ---- we tend to get pretty tired).
I just don't think it's benifital to us anymore to hide this as much as we do.