newbie with a question

[ex-schrodin.livejournal.com]

Um, hi. I just joined the community, so...hi. Anyway, I have a question, its probably kind of a wierd question and I'd like to know if anybody has had the same problem as me, or if anyone has any advice for me.

The other dominant member of the system I'm in refuses to believe that she is a multiple. She continually rationalizes everything in regards to it away, like, 'everyone has conversations with themseleves', 'I was just distracted and out of it when such and such' and 'just because my personality is different at times doesn't mean I have multiple personalities'. Compelling arguments, I suppose, yet I clearly feel like a separate entity. I don't know what I'm trying to ask. :(