Introduction

[darkladyshadow.livejournal.com]

Greetings everyone.

I ^obviously^ have a personal LJ, but tend to keep this bit of my life out of it.

I've noticed that even the few people who I know in RL tend to change the subject or shrug it off when I try to mention anything on this subject. And I think it would just confuse my online only friends.

I attempted to make my personal journal my multiples journal, all it did was get confusing and annoying. I thought about getting them to start there own, but I think we are all under the assumption that having everyone's thought in one place would just keep things tidier.

I just need a place to freely vent, as do the others.

Eventually you'll get to know us all. But here is the life of the Collective... or as I call it "the Public Face"

There is a fiance (Jim), and two children (Blair and Kaitlyn) the children don't know of my "issue" and the fiance has a hard time dealing, but has known about it since we met. Name given to this body at birth is Sandra, everyone calls us Sandy....personally, I hate the name.


I need to know that I/WE are not alone. And I think all of us could use support from others in like circumstances.

I have searched the net for info, and support groups, but quickly become dissatisfied.

I think we all need somewhere we can vent and be known as who we really are, even in this house we have a hard time living our own lives.