What "rules" your system sets up for a relationship is up to your system to decide. The thing about that is it will take being able to communicate and reach a consesus. It might even have to happen with every relationship you get into in the future. We have had relationships where it was basically the person dating us all (well all adult and sexually active people) so basically anyone could agree to sex with that person. In other relationships it was more one or two of us, and if the other person had sex with anyone other than those people it would be considered cheating. But the thing was that was for us to decide and enforce. Although he was pretty good at pickign a few of us it would have been easy to fool him. We had to realise we were responsible, that we had to be responsible for our actions.
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Date: 2004-12-15 04:12 am (UTC)