Thanks for the advice! (And ya, I love KoL. I'm Kaesesandwiche there, too.)
It is made more hard i think by the fact i do care about them a lot, i just dont trust 90% of what they say about there past and/or being multiple cuz the longer i know them the more it is obvius how much they just steal stories from other people they know or even books they read or stories they hear.
And it is so hard to tell. Sometimes it seems like they just want atentoin and sometimes it seems like they been sticking to a certin lie for so long theyve started to believe it.
For me, personaly, I -- used to get a lot more pissed, and then frustrated, and now I just dont care as much as I did, exept that some of the others in my system DO still get really either angry/stressed/upset over their behavior, and even if i cuold put up with it myself i don't like staying in situashins that is unhelthy for the others.
So maybe I can try a combinatoin of things -- get out of here first like we are doing, and then see if it is easyer for everyone to be detached when we are not having to live with them an see them every day.
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Date: 2007-07-20 03:45 am (UTC)It is made more hard i think by the fact i do care about them a lot, i just dont trust 90% of what they say about there past and/or being multiple cuz the longer i know them the more it is obvius how much they just steal stories from other people they know or even books they read or stories they hear.
And it is so hard to tell. Sometimes it seems like they just want atentoin and sometimes it seems like they been sticking to a certin lie for so long theyve started to believe it.
For me, personaly, I -- used to get a lot more pissed, and then frustrated, and now I just dont care as much as I did, exept that some of the others in my system DO still get really either angry/stressed/upset over their behavior, and even if i cuold put up with it myself i don't like staying in situashins that is unhelthy for the others.
So maybe I can try a combinatoin of things -- get out of here first like we are doing, and then see if it is easyer for everyone to be detached when we are not having to live with them an see them every day.