We do that all the time with the other system we are involved with. We have been doing it for a couple years now and they are more comfortable with it than we are. Sometimes our people being over there can be hard and if its been too long they will sometimes come back here spontaneously which can be very confusing for both systems. The other hard part for me is if one of their people is over here and I really have something important to say to them I would prefer they talk to me from their own body. That may sound silly but they remember better that way and I dont have to second guess myself like I sometimes do if they are talking to me from here...like did she say that because she knew thats what I wanted her to say type of thing. As for coping, the only thing I can tell you is dont panic. I think if you really want them back before tuesday write the other system an email or msg them however you do and tell them you need/want them to come back home. It just takes getting use to and even though Im use to it, I still prefer to talk to people in their own bodies most of the time. But sometimes it helps, it can be a useful tool for both systems. Just I wouldnt do it with anyone I didnt absolutely trust.
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Date: 2007-04-07 03:58 pm (UTC)sj