actually jfor us its a combination of all of the above.
sometimes it's situational, like Rinn is good with plants so she will take care of any plants, teh Gaurdians of the system are good at dealing with pain so they are front for Physical Therepy ect
Sometimes soemthing triggers and this is not always a bad thing. Our mate growling softly at teh back of our neck will blessed near garuntee puppy to take front even if it's only for a second or two.
we prearrange times as well, especially adult playtime or certian adult activites that some enjoy and the rest find disturbing or unpleasent.
For us the hardest part is scheduling times so everyone who wants to front alone can. (we generally co-front a lot)
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Date: 2006-12-05 12:48 pm (UTC)sometimes it's situational, like Rinn is good with plants so she will take care of any plants, teh Gaurdians of the system are good at dealing with pain so they are front for Physical Therepy ect
Sometimes soemthing triggers and this is not always a bad thing. Our mate growling softly at teh back of our neck will blessed near garuntee puppy to take front even if it's only for a second or two.
we prearrange times as well, especially adult playtime or certian adult activites that some enjoy and the rest find disturbing or unpleasent.
For us the hardest part is scheduling times so everyone who wants to front alone can. (we generally co-front a lot)