How long do you think she'll be gone? I mean, is this a case of "house-sitting for the week," or will you be staying for years? I think you have to judge it similarly. We've changed fronts here, and when Padders and Erik started moving on we had to make similar decisions. Luckily we switched rooms in the house when our lovers moved in, so we were able to redecorate at that time without really hurting their feelings. We just packed things gently away, and explained why on one of their infrequent visits.
I hope you don't mind if I ask you a question, though. How are you going to feel if she comes back and starts packing all /your/ stuff away? Maybe that will help you put it in some perspective.
Me, they'd have to pry front from my cold dead fingers. ;)
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Date: 2006-11-24 04:12 am (UTC)I hope you don't mind if I ask you a question, though. How are you going to feel if she comes back and starts packing all /your/ stuff away? Maybe that will help you put it in some perspective.
Me, they'd have to pry front from my cold dead fingers. ;)