I have seen the question on here a lot about significant others and what to do if only one is inthe relationship etc... For myself personally... I and We will not allow a relationship unless We agree. If We don't all agree, it doesn't happen. Therefore, I have been married once and am now engaged to a man I have been with for a long time. I know other systems where each one has their own Significant other but personally, if we all dont agree, then something is wrong... but again... that is ONLY me... many others are different and live differently. I just feel that unanimous agreement makes life a lot easier to deal with, and, given that many folks have to agree, we haven't ended up with any abusive loser assholes... just one guy who got overwhelmed and our current SO. It works for us... but I know that is just me...
![[community profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png){kind=small}
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
timeasmymeasure
no subject
Date: 2006-11-22 05:01 am (UTC)For myself personally... I and We will not allow a relationship unless We agree. If We don't all agree, it doesn't happen. Therefore, I have been married once and am now engaged to a man I have been with for a long time.
I know other systems where each one has their own Significant other but personally, if we all dont agree, then something is wrong... but again... that is ONLY me... many others are different and live differently. I just feel that unanimous agreement makes life a lot easier to deal with, and, given that many folks have to agree, we haven't ended up with any abusive loser assholes... just one guy who got overwhelmed and our current SO. It works for us... but I know that is just me...