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[militesdekulta.livejournal.com]

Ca's friend Stephen is truly bothering us all. He keeps conveniently forgetting we exist and saying it's weird that Ca knows about us. Whatever. Every multiple learns at some point they're not alone. Yes we are coconscious and no that is not a crime. He is pissing me off and I don't know how to fix this. He acts sad and bewildered when someone else picks up the phone,a nd he forces Ca out which is never good. It's one thing to ask for her, that we would have no problem with as other people have and do do that. But he has no tact in that arena and "won't fucking ask for Lunette or something" because "that's weird".
--Luna and Elondriel

Comments

[amethystrse.livejournal.com]

How long has Stephen known about you guys? (I don't remember if you told me). It could be that he just needs some time. Or better yet, he just might need some gentle education on what a multiple is.

[3g3n3r4710nz.livejournal.com]

well he def knows what a multiple is seeing as he claims having so much experience with his mom's friends "like that" and we told him a few months ago so...shouldnt be an issue :/

[thebkcam.livejournal.com]

Just a thought, but what are his mom's friends who are "like that" like, exactly? If they're going by the traditional Sybil-like therapy model, then he's going to think it's natural for a system to have a "host" who isn't aware of "alters", which would explain why he's "saying it's weird that Ca knows about us".

He might also be under the impression that Ca is "the real person", which is another thing coming from the therapy model, although it's more common with the newer DID ideas. If he doesn't believe the rest of you are actually real people, but are just "Ca pretending", then that, too, would explain why he "won't fucking ask for Lunette or something" because "that's weird".

The best thing to do might be to talk to him about it sometime when you're hanging out, calmly explain how you guys feel about his behavior. If he's treating anyone but Ca like they aren't real, then that doesn't really do Ca any respect either.

[3g3n3r4710nz.livejournal.com]

i agree and thanks for your response. hes actually been cool about us so if that keeps up we won't have to have a talk.
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