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multiplicity_archivesI heard that this was a very quiet community and I haven't checked to see if anyone is still reading or posting but, for whoever's out there... hi.
I'm Ghost. One of many (it's an uncharted collective so I can't give you any numbers right away).
We used to have a lot of friends but not anymore.![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
laren is the host (or whatever word you prefer, I hope my mannerisms aren't offensive please I'm very docile) and used to have two multiple friends who the others were able to socialize with... because she thought it was right for the others to have "lives outside of her head", and singles didn't seem to understand... but she lost both of those friends in some rather vicious fighting and we're all very lonely and scared right now, in the midst of a depressive phase. laren is considering hospitalization...
But anyway, the purpose of this post was for me to announce my entrance into the community and mention that we're really lonely so if you're ever bored please come say hello.
I'm Ghost. One of many (it's an uncharted collective so I can't give you any numbers right away).
We used to have a lot of friends but not anymore.
laren is the host (or whatever word you prefer, I hope my mannerisms aren't offensive please I'm very docile) and used to have two multiple friends who the others were able to socialize with... because she thought it was right for the others to have "lives outside of her head", and singles didn't seem to understand... but she lost both of those friends in some rather vicious fighting and we're all very lonely and scared right now, in the midst of a depressive phase. laren is considering hospitalization... But anyway, the purpose of this post was for me to announce my entrance into the community and mention that we're really lonely so if you're ever bored please come say hello.
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Date: 2003-06-12 04:57 pm (UTC)Cait
Hi!
Date: 2003-06-12 09:42 pm (UTC)Sometimes multiples don't get on.. it's just the same as any people, or groups of people. We've had that happen. And we've had some wonderful relationships with other multiples, and singlets too. Give yourselves a chance ;)
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Date: 2003-06-12 11:14 pm (UTC)To be honest, the multiples we've met have ranged from being our closest friends to some of our most hated enemies. Even among a group of distinct individuals, there can often be one highly unpleasant individual calling all the shots and pulling the strings, or the whole collective can be guided by a philosophy you or others in your group find just too abhorrent to put up with. I'm sorry you lost yours-- it's very important to have people whom you can trust with the fact of you being plural, in our experience.
The business about other people needing to have lives outside brainspace is one that's gotten us a rather chilly reception from some singlets. They seemed to have selected one person early on as the 'real' one and wanted them to be around all the time, and couldn't grasp that the others were people with their own needs and desires as well-- treated them as being just a shade less than real. It's a problem we're very familiar with.
Anyway, glad to have you on board. ^^
~Azusa, for amorpha
hihi
Date: 2003-06-13 03:49 pm (UTC)not sures whats to says buts we likes to gets to knows others peoples toos
ok bibi
Angie/lilfish