multiplicity_archives | Switching Issues - Starting to get resolved. ^^; (Reply)

Hey, posting for (

nanonyanchan). She suggested it. All of your suggestions about what to do when your system is having trouble keeping people out for more than two seconds really helped us. We think we should combine all the things we heard, since they all would work really well together. One of the ways that we're doing that is by letting different system members make our posts and do daily tasks. I have to hold back all my drama and shit but I guess that's good for me anyways right?

I hope it's okay with everyone if I start posting here and if everyone in Celen (

familymembers) starts using

multiplicity as a place to work through our stuff. Kiera (

nanonyanchan) has a lot of self-hate because she doesn't feel ready to start helping other members of the comm as much as she wants to. Is that okay, too? If we contribute to other posts as we can but don't screw with it past the point of being able to handle it.

Kiera wants to talk:

Personal thanks for all the advice!! ^^; I'm really sorry that we weren't able to reply to everything individually, things got extremely stressful. We went through a lot of discussions and transformations and stuff and finally just a few hours ago (before I went to sleep for the night) we had our first major, stable, really-good-feeling switch.

It was a wonderful experience to go into the back, and not only that, but Niuko (niuko) - he was the one who came out - had a LOT of suggestions on how to do everything from improve the quality of work I produce at my job (actually, he wanted to take over some of it, which I would never complain about! ^^;;), to mental health issues. Even some of his opinions on system issues were made clearer - it's a lot easier when the person talking actually has access to the front!

And of course I ended up feeling a lot better than I ever thought I could, and so I feel a whole heck of a lot better about letting go.

I think the most important thing we're learning is that it's okay to have times when we're cofronting, mixed up, or not very "strong" in our presence - it doesn't have to be full on, and the only reason it ever was had to do with fear of being judged, which was silly. We're with friends now.

Anyway, places to go.. clicking the post button now! Please let us know if you're okay with how we plan to post to the community for the time being. ^^;