This has happened to me before at varying times, somewhat on a varying continuum for how extensive the hiding and lack of communication and contact with them, as well as for how long it will last.
I think there is a correlation of high stress for me/us when this happens and when there is a lot of extra pressure to focus on external happenings. There are other things that will also cause various groups or individuals to be nearly impossible to locate, access, communicate with, etc. for a period of time.
I've found though that it doesn't last forever. This happened again to me earlier this year, and it helped me to write about it, talk about it with other multiples, and ultimately when I got together in person with a few other multiples, some others did show up for a little bit to talk to their friends. I was also able to find out a little bit about what was going on by journaling and trying to let them know that I missed them and wanted to know what was going on with them, etc. They also showed up a little bit to journal.
Oh also, if you are needing help with something specific or would like information on something specific, I think that sometimes sending an internal message with a specific request tends to have better results during times of communication difficulties.
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Date: 2005-11-02 02:09 am (UTC)I think there is a correlation of high stress for me/us when this happens and when there is a lot of extra pressure to focus on external happenings. There are other things that will also cause various groups or individuals to be nearly impossible to locate, access, communicate with, etc. for a period of time.
I've found though that it doesn't last forever. This happened again to me earlier this year, and it helped me to write about it, talk about it with other multiples, and ultimately when I got together in person with a few other multiples, some others did show up for a little bit to talk to their friends. I was also able to find out a little bit about what was going on by journaling and trying to let them know that I missed them and wanted to know what was going on with them, etc. They also showed up a little bit to journal.
Oh also, if you are needing help with something specific or would like information on something specific, I think that sometimes sending an internal message with a specific request tends to have better results during times of communication difficulties.
Good luck,
Julie