Can I be quite blunt here and say that It's a bit depressing reading all the members of this com who're actually saying "OMG soulbonders bad"...
Oh, sure. I can only speak for myself, but I know when I say similar statements, I'm speaking from a place of knowing only the fruitbasket contingent. This conversation has put me in touch with folks I would consider to be rational soulbonders--if that's the correct term, it's probably not--so I have to revise my thinking. Yet again. :)
I left this year because I beleive that I wasn't going to get any answers because every system is different. And thats why it's so important not to make such a generalisation, because everybody's going to have different experiences, based on their life in this world as well as what goes on inside. It's always going to be different.
Yeah, probably. Which is why folks like me have such a hard time--I'm already in a weird position of being the fronter without borders, because I really can't sense anyone else--save that I know I'm not alone (someone's awake back there, they're just not talking...), and that makes me nervous. And being the nervous little twitchy OCD sort I am, I want a tidy universe. I want explainable. I want understandable. I want things to make sense.
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Re: I am hijacking D's journal.
Date: 2005-08-10 11:52 pm (UTC)Oh, sure. I can only speak for myself, but I know when I say similar statements, I'm speaking from a place of knowing only the fruitbasket contingent. This conversation has put me in touch with folks I would consider to be rational soulbonders--if that's the correct term, it's probably not--so I have to revise my thinking. Yet again. :)
I left this year because I beleive that I wasn't going to get any answers because every system is different. And thats why it's so important not to make such a generalisation, because everybody's going to have different experiences, based on their life in this world as well as what goes on inside. It's always going to be different.
Yeah, probably. Which is why folks like me have such a hard time--I'm already in a weird position of being the fronter without borders, because I really can't sense anyone else--save that I know I'm not alone (someone's awake back there, they're just not talking...), and that makes me nervous. And being the nervous little twitchy OCD sort I am, I want a tidy universe. I want explainable. I want understandable. I want things to make sense.
Even, or maybe especially, when they don't. :)