It might help if you don't think of them as existing in her head. After all, she is a person in their head. If you think of things as her head, her body, her life, ect; that's reinforcing the idea that your wife is more important than the others. Try using more neutral terms like the body, ect. that reflect their joint ownership of things.
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Date: 2005-05-22 03:43 am (UTC)