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[taranfaithsgaby.livejournal.com]

Hi. I was a little bit worried about posting here since I am not multiple, but my girlfriends convinced me that I should. You see, I'm in love with two. They are both part of Pack Collective, and have recently posted here. *Waves at Faith and Tara.*

The core, Rick, is married, and soul bound, to Jaysun, both of whom I care for dearly and am learning more and more about everyday.

So, here's my thing. I know Tara posting about if there were other systems that have partners within the same "house". And I don't really know that I have a question or any precise reason for posting here other than that I love them and am in love with them and they are my world and I want to learn as much as I can so that I can take care of them. Does anyone have advice for an outsider trying to do what's best for the Collective, and therefore, my girls? I'm going to muddle through this, but any advice that you may be able to offer would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

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[ksol1460.livejournal.com]

http://www.karitas.net/blackbirds/layman/
http://www.dreamshore.net/amorpha/
http://www.astraeasweb.net/plural/faq.shtml
(especially http://www.astraeasweb.net/plural/faq.shtml#them )

Someone really needs to do a page on singlets having relationships with healthy plurals.

[shadowechoes.livejournal.com]

Hi and welcome. The best advice We can give is to (continue - looks like you're already aware of them as individuals) regarding and treating them (your girlfriends as well as the rest of their system) like individuals and recognizing their needs as such. Communication is always key (between you, Tara, Faith, Rick, and Jaysun), just like in any relationship - especially since things can get messy I'm sure if some in a system are seeing a person of one body and others are seeing another person of another body.

~Jassa

[jhonathand.livejournal.com]

I think we should start a dialogue,

It's nice to see that there's someone else out there who has the same Problem that I do. I can tell you how I've learned to cope with it, and have learned to deal with some of the obsticales that I've come accross with the way things are.

All the things I could and wwould say would take up entirely too much space on this post. so I won't bog you or the main :j server with what I have to say and undoubtidly what you have to say as well.

I do hope you reply, I am very excited about being able to talk with someone Other than the rest of the persons in the "House" of my dear Love.

Please don't get me wrong, The Other's in his house are thrilled that I am here and he and are happy with what we have and ador the time that we get together, It also helps that all of us are friends and get along in life as well as this in addition.

Well all except one. My 1 Other who lives with me really has no opinion on what I do, but never the less it does throw a slight wrinkle into the mix.

So Anyways, I think I've taken up a little too much space already.

So Please feel free to post back to me, and if need be take down my E-Mail, (The Addy is in my Profile) and write me outside of the Lj setting and we'll Sit, we'll Kabbitz, We'll Nosch,.

It'll be a good thing.

Excitedly yours,

~M~

[ksol1460.livejournal.com]

Yo! Dude! ^5

[jhonathand.livejournal.com]

O.K.,............Ummm,.

*scratches head*

not sure what you are saying.

I'm lingo inpaired in the extreme,.........LOL

need clarification.

~M~

[ksol1460.livejournal.com]

Just good to see you, is all. :) ^5 means a high-five. (ya know, like baseball players when one of them hits a homer.)

[jhonathand.livejournal.com]

O.K. thanx,.

I feel like such a hapless techno wenie sometimes it's pathetic,.

BTW, Kir and Jess, send their hellos to you and the rest of your clan.

~M~

[ksol1460.livejournal.com]

Hello to them too! from your fellow techno-weenies (there I was not 30 seconds ago struggling to get Irfan (http://www.irfanview.com) to play somebody's phone post)

[jhonathand.livejournal.com]

Oh, Thank god,.

Here I thought I was the only one out here.

LOL,.....

BTW I'm totally 'diggin' the Icon.

It remindes me of one of my favorite Anime Char. in one of my favorite series.

~M~