Hello. This is my first post to this group. I've not sure as to the protocols or how people interact here.
I found this site when searching for multiplicity - sites with accurate information for my significant other. I read some posts that interested me and pissed me off somewhat. These are the comments about a Pat Stubbs and her view of multiplicity - that if we do not claim to childhood abuse there is no way that we are dissociative - that we are "faking it". I was surprised when I did further research, found her m-a-h.net site, and found out that she is not a health professional (even says so on her site) but that she does as in fact pass herself off as an "expert" on multiplicity. Her site espouses her limited view on multiplicity; the site is no more than a business to make a living off of people who join the site; and those dupes who trade "promoting" each others sites - to make more money --- and at the same time slamming those of us who do not agree with her limited views.
I found her on the new aboutus.org site and rated her site along with 3 other reviews - one looked to be from Pat Stubbs herself. Well woulnd't you know it they removed all the negative site reviews from the site and only left what looks to be Pat Stubbs review of her own site.
I think that everyone who is as pissed off as I am about this so called "expert" passing herself and her site off as "experts" should go to aboutus.org and rate her site. If you think she's doing a good job say so - if not you certainly owe it to all the multiples in the world to call her out on herself.
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Pat Stubbs Passing Herself Off As "Expert" On Multiplicity
Date: 2006-09-25 06:28 pm (UTC)I found this site when searching for multiplicity - sites with accurate information for my significant other. I read some posts that interested me and pissed me off somewhat. These are the comments about a Pat Stubbs and her view of multiplicity - that if we do not claim to childhood abuse there is no way that we are dissociative - that we are "faking it". I was surprised when I did further research, found her m-a-h.net site, and found out that she is not a health professional (even says so on her site) but that she does as in fact pass herself off as an "expert" on multiplicity. Her site espouses her limited view on multiplicity; the site is no more than a business to make a living off of people who join the site; and those dupes who trade "promoting" each others sites - to make more money --- and at the same time slamming those of us who do not agree with her limited views.
I found her on the new aboutus.org site and rated her site along with 3 other reviews - one looked to be from Pat Stubbs herself. Well woulnd't you know it they removed all the negative site reviews from the site and only left what looks to be Pat Stubbs review of her own site.
I think that everyone who is as pissed off as I am about this so called "expert" passing herself and her site off as "experts" should go to aboutus.org and rate her site. If you think she's doing a good job say so - if not you certainly owe it to all the multiples in the world to call her out on herself.