Just because a person doesn't say no, doesn't mean they should be screwed anyway. And frankly if our fiance acted like that, if Lu were to say 'here, fuck Selene she's not in the mood to give a shit', I know damn fine he'd feel terrible and not do it. Because that is WRONG. You don't just screw somebody because they don't care enough to fight it. That says a lot about the boyfriend, none of it good.
Yes, the system is also to blame, but the boyfriend should never have accepted that.
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Date: 2004-12-15 12:29 pm (UTC)Yes, the system is also to blame, but the boyfriend should never have accepted that.