I didn't say you had to deal with it. I said they had to. If you are the 'carer' then by the way you seem to refer to systems, somebody else 'carries the pain'. It's their job to deal with it. Though frankly I think you could help if you had the available time etc. If you don't then fine. Lu does our uni work. I am incapable of doing it, so I shouldn't be expected to. this is how society as a whole works and I will not argue that.
I appreciate that things like this do take time. That does not mean they should not happen. A system can either continue struggling as you seem to, or they can accept that they have to try and 'mend'. At the end of it, things may not be perfect but perhaps they will be happier.
I had to deal with my problems myself. I had nobody to carry my pain. Nobody to erase my memories. I had nobody to protect me. To me, having a system as you do seems very much the easy option. I'm sure you can probably understand where I am coming from.
If I have been harsh, I apologise. It is my nature though I am trying to change it, and to put it bluntly I am an absolute fucking wreck right now. I'm only just holding myself together. You're lucky I didn't go hysterical on you.
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Re: I dissagree with you.
Date: 2004-10-19 04:27 pm (UTC)I appreciate that things like this do take time. That does not mean they should not happen. A system can either continue struggling as you seem to, or they can accept that they have to try and 'mend'. At the end of it, things may not be perfect but perhaps they will be happier.
I had to deal with my problems myself. I had nobody to carry my pain. Nobody to erase my memories. I had nobody to protect me. To me, having a system as you do seems very much the easy option. I'm sure you can probably understand where I am coming from.
If I have been harsh, I apologise. It is my nature though I am trying to change it, and to put it bluntly I am an absolute fucking wreck right now. I'm only just holding myself together. You're lucky I didn't go hysterical on you.