Most of the conflicts we've had over sexuality stem in some way or another from the fact that we've been celibate for the past five years or so-- voluntarily, because the person who was the dominant front until recently had a lot of sexual insecurities and hangups, and the problem is that now that said person isn't the dominant front any more, not everyone likes the whole celibacy deal. It's not that we never -want- to have any kind of life in that department again, it's more that a lot of us need help getting over our hangups.
As for differing sexual tastes, that's not as big an issue among us. Nobody in here is really into BDSM or other 'kinks'-- we just don't see the appeal of it, ourselves, though it's other people's choice if they want to do it. Some of us are definitely more attracted to one gender than the other, though on the whole, we've kind of been shunning the label 'bisexual' lately-- because there are some people in here who are neither male nor female and are definitely sexual in their own right. So why use a word that implies there are only two choices? We don't care much for labels anyhow.
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timeasmymeasure
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Date: 2003-04-10 12:21 pm (UTC)As for differing sexual tastes, that's not as big an issue among us. Nobody in here is really into BDSM or other 'kinks'-- we just don't see the appeal of it, ourselves, though it's other people's choice if they want to do it. Some of us are definitely more attracted to one gender than the other, though on the whole, we've kind of been shunning the label 'bisexual' lately-- because there are some people in here who are neither male nor female and are definitely sexual in their own right. So why use a word that implies there are only two choices? We don't care much for labels anyhow.