well we certainly have different relationships and sexual needs in here :)
birrd is totally devoted to our old boyfriend, and to other people in *his* system, but in kind of a disturbing way because he's really intense about it and wants to be cuddled and kissed and wants to make out with people and thinks he wants to have sex and he's 7.
and rose is a sane and consenting adult except she's a little TOO loving and has almost gotten us in trouble before, being totally willing to have sex or even long conversations with people who are very manipulative and cruel to us because she can see the good in them and they behave themselves around *her.* oh I'm tempted to make that a link to the person i'm talking about but i'll definitely have to practice restraint!
and dani's totally codependent and has stayed in abusive relationships for way too long... he's probably not the only one... and also promised way too many resources and too much energy (as in more than he's able or truly willing to give) to people that are good partners. but he's in CoDA now so he's working on that. :-)
Most of us that have declared a sexual orientation are bi, but there are people who are as yet undecided :) As a system we're actually transgendered as well as bi and most of our partners have been some variation of transgendered, which bends the question of whether to be with boys or girls somewhat ;)
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Date: 2003-04-09 10:41 am (UTC)birrd is totally devoted to our old boyfriend, and to other people in *his* system, but in kind of a disturbing way because he's really intense about it and wants to be cuddled and kissed and wants to make out with people and thinks he wants to have sex and he's 7.
and rose is a sane and consenting adult except she's a little TOO loving and has almost gotten us in trouble before, being totally willing to have sex or even long conversations with people who are very manipulative and cruel to us because she can see the good in them and they behave themselves around *her.* oh I'm tempted to make that a link to the person i'm talking about but i'll definitely have to practice restraint!
and dani's totally codependent and has stayed in abusive relationships for way too long... he's probably not the only one... and also promised way too many resources and too much energy (as in more than he's able or truly willing to give) to people that are good partners. but he's in CoDA now so he's working on that. :-)
Most of us that have declared a sexual orientation are bi, but there are people who are as yet undecided :) As a system we're actually transgendered as well as bi and most of our partners have been some variation of transgendered, which bends the question of whether to be with boys or girls somewhat ;)