keeping up appearances

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i had something come up this morning in that one of my girlfriends (i'm in a triad) mentioned that she thought i didn't "pass" as normal. They both know that i am multiple and while neither of them have had previous experience with this they accept me for who and what i/we are. Now this wouldn't have been worrisome in and of itself except that my other gf agreed with her. i know that since i've been involved with them my others are getting more comfortable and being encouraged to come out and express themselves. This is a good thing but i feel like it may be having a direct impact on how well i pass or not.

This concerns me a great deal because i used to pass quite well and it's important for things like work and my relationship with my Baby's Daddy. :(

Does anyone have any thoughts on this?