I hate to agree here with clanandinsiders but I have to say they are correct. My own system has gone through this too & it is not a simple thing to get people to talk. One of the Houses residents here, el, is our resident diplomat though she can be just as blunt as any protector I've met when it is obvious that is required to sort matters out. Mediation with her as the focal point worked for us in some situations when things would/could not be resolved tween the parties by themselves.
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Date: 2004-10-26 01:28 am (UTC)Tatiana