i can definitely identify with going away because i don't want to deal with the bullshit of my or our life anymore. it sounds like you guys have a ton of chaos and stuff going on now too.
here's what i don't get. why aren't more people in survivors of incest anonymous (http://siawso.org)? not that all multiples were abused, sexually or otherwise, but i'm guessing you were or people wouldn't be having all those nervous breakdowns and emotional pits and so on.
i mean, it's not an obvious solution. but that shit is seriously what has made me be able and willing to be around and what has helped me figure out how to make our life safe and sane again, after years of totally fucked up relationships and emotional pits and people coming and going in total chaos. not that your relationship is fucked up, mine just were. and it's gotten a lot more harmony in our system and a lot more people having healthy lives and working together even more than we did and shit.
there aren't that many meetings, but there are like three in missouri. and an online one and stuff (http://leaves.wineberry.net/sia/online).
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Date: 2004-09-23 12:38 am (UTC)here's what i don't get. why aren't more people in survivors of incest anonymous (http://siawso.org)? not that all multiples were abused, sexually or otherwise, but i'm guessing you were or people wouldn't be having all those nervous breakdowns and emotional pits and so on.
i mean, it's not an obvious solution. but that shit is seriously what has made me be able and willing to be around and what has helped me figure out how to make our life safe and sane again, after years of totally fucked up relationships and emotional pits and people coming and going in total chaos. not that your relationship is fucked up, mine just were. and it's gotten a lot more harmony in our system and a lot more people having healthy lives and working together even more than we did and shit.
there aren't that many meetings, but there are like three in missouri. and an online one and stuff (http://leaves.wineberry.net/sia/online).