Ever wish you could freeze a moment and then smash it out of existance?

[darkladyshadow.livejournal.com]

I just came out publicly in my journal. And I am scared shitless.

I am the least qualified to have done this, but I am the most confused by everything. I lose years of my life and need to be brought up to speed (after an adequate freaking out phase) everytime I come forward.

My memories stop at age 16... this body is now 24, almost 25.

The husband made the joke "Could be worse, you could be like 10 second Tom" I had no idea what he was talking about, so he sat down and watched 50 first dates... he had rented it as a joke with S.R., and they had a laugh over it. But all it did was make me cry... because that pretty much is how life is for me.

I'm sure you've seen this journal name in here before, apparently I've been a member before.

Anyway, my point was, it is now public knowledge...

What were your experiences "coming out" like?

Comments

[whispersong.livejournal.com]

this systems people have lost friends & such too over this issue of being multiple.

personally i do not care about the outside worlds singlets at large. i have little use for most of them unless they are willing to at least respect that i am as real as they are. if they do that much, i'm willing ot educate, help, laugh with & share their company.

what else is there...? you get on with life & make it as pleasant as possible.

T

[chrisau8r.livejournal.com]

personally i do not care about the outside worlds singlets at large. i have little use for most of them unless they are willing to at least respect that i am as real as they are. if they do that much, i'm willing ot educate, help, laugh with & share their company.

*nods* This is very true. I have a lot of singlet friends, being the one who deals with them most, and they are special to me, but the ones who couldn't handle it all I'm doing fine without. My best friends are the ones who acknowledge and accept it, my best friend always knows what's going on in the system, asks how people are doing when they've been having a rough time, today one of the littles made her first phone call ever so she could tell him about the snow we had today.

The friend who had been attacking us, however, the kids dismiss as "norty" and then forget about, and the older ones sort of frown and ignore him. lol

[hairymonster.livejournal.com]

my best friend always knows what's going on in the system, asks how people are doing when they've been having a rough time, today one of the littles made her first phone call ever so she could tell him about the snow we had today.

Hold on to friends like that, they're worth their weight in gold. I have one, she's the first person who believed my story, need people like that around :)