No, no offense was taken. I realize I worded the post a bit poorly .. I'm not going to set him up until he's ready. The thing is, as I've said, he's identified as ten for many years. I feel like he just doesn't want to come to terms with sexual feelings, possibly because he's denying something, like homosexual feelings. I guess just talking to him is a good idea, though. I just don't want to freak him out.