How to Deal?

[fraginfairy.livejournal.com]

I guess it's bound to happen, but... still. Undergoing a lot of hurt because the man I loved... disappeared? Hard to explain. But his (for lack of a better term) "host" ended up coping? Not needing him anymore? So he's gone. Is this normal? I hope this doesn't offend anyone, I just wanted any answers or... something, I guess. Thanks.

~Frag

Comments

[gryphons.livejournal.com]

You do what you can to manage.. the host may be coping, but he may not be gone .. he may be either sleeping, or working on something.. or hiding for a bit.. we do that at times.. especially if he was primary during a stressful time.. he may need a break.. or something needed his attention. Don't count on him being gone..

Is it normal for people to stop interacting out here.. it can be.. one of our former primaries.. is still mostly comatose most of the time.. others of us.. tend to take breaks.. or need time away from the body for whatever reasons

no offense taken.. it happens..

[fraginfairy.livejournal.com]

Unfortunately... the problem was the "host" was faking the entire time, felt guilty, then confessed that she was. So, he can't evern come back, and technicallt wasn;t there 2 begin w/.

But thank you...