http://fandolfini.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] fandolfini.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] multiplicity_archives2004-12-17 08:07 pm

new to the community

I was just diagnosed with Did and am not doing to well with it. If there is anyone who could help me with this it would be appricated. Im not sure what is going on and all that kind of thing. I have looked up info on the internet and dont really understand most of it. Im not sure what is going to happen to me now and Im really kinda scared.
email is posted on my user profile I dont mind if you would like to email me to chat or whatever.
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[identity profile] iamshadow.livejournal.com 2004-12-18 03:53 pm (UTC)(link)
It's good that you've got some communication already. That's really important. If the others in your system are making advances, then they're obviously interested in getting to know you, and to get you knowing about them. It's a really positive starting point. Build on all that more, and you're on your way to having a functional communications setup.

The important thing is it doesn't really matter how you communicate, but that you do. Whether it's notes, blogging, or internal communication, when you're talking somehow, you can start working out stuff like guidelines for who's up front and basic system rules. Important issues can range from taking medication on time, pre-agreeing on body modification such as hair colour change, piercings or tattoos, drug/alcohol/smoking/meat intake, to non-cutting/non-suicide agreements.

Though things seem pretty massive at the moment, you've taken big steps already.

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