However, to find the silver lining, it is an opportunity to help teach the littles an important skill, which is concientious decision making.

ty for that statement, i hadn't thought of that. :) an excellent idea. all of our lj's are friends only. if people wish to try to mock any of us on here, let them. just means i'll have to step forward perhaps & help them defend themselves but i find it highly unlikely that will ever be necessary as they only post to their own lj's usually.

{J}tatiana