"The husband made the joke "Could be worse, you could be like 10 second Tom"
man, that is a pretty fucked up thing to say... really, i think that a lot of folks just don't even think before talking... just make a joke (about things that should *not* be poked fun at) and then roll their eyes if we dare to be hurt by their remarks...
as for our coming-out experiences, i really hate to say it but there is no way to predict how a singlet will take it...
all you can do is just remember that you are not obligated to reveal anything to anyone...
when you *do* tell other people your information, only do it when you want to and when you feel safe to do so...
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man, that is a pretty fucked up thing to say... really, i think that a lot of folks just don't even think before talking... just make a joke (about things that should *not* be poked fun at) and then roll their eyes if we dare to be hurt by their remarks...
as for our coming-out experiences, i really hate to say it but there is no way to predict how a singlet will take it...
all you can do is just remember that you are not obligated to reveal anything to anyone...
when you *do* tell other people your information, only do it when you want to and when you feel safe to do so...
hugs
Juju & Co.