Sounds like what I (using the term loosely *host) went through when the others were coming out. (There's some confusion as I'm half asleep and there are several people trying to talk at once).

I always feel like when the others come around and we talk that they could be my thoughts. But at the same time they defintly aren't.

If you are trying to switch you could find activities which draw certain person or people out. If you are trying not to switch let me know.

Mel, Tara, Holly, Pattie ... et al ... ASRAIS