oh, i do put in the attempt to "talk" to them in my head, but it's more like them talking to ME into being quiet and letting them take over because whatever is going on is too emotionally overwhelming for me to handle at the moment...
even w/sex...
hell, i LOVE sex -
but my friend tells me that "someone" requested or wanted or said this and that and had a great time doing whatever was suggested and i don't wind up remembering sometimes until days later...
makes for an interesting "Remembered" moment, let me tell you...