can't do the notes thing - they either never get sent, or get deleted or whatever...just doesn't happen this time around...tho' it's a great idea...
it seems the person that many feel comfortable talking to is my friend...whether it's verbally (in person), or thru emails...
every once in a blue moon i will hear something about someone and not want to be caught in the middle of conversation - but there i am...sending messages via some kind of megatron score board in my head to whomever...