I think being "functional" is based on opinion. Why is it that multiples who can't communicate directly with the others in their system are nonfunctional? I experience blackouts and can't really communicate with Vi, but we function just fine together by using things like diaries and my boyfriend and anything else to talk to each other. While I would like to be able to speak directly to her, we're still "functioning" happily.

But I know how frustrating it can be, so I know how you feel. I'm hoping you find a way to cope with it soon.